She deactivated her account, because like most children, running seems smarter than standing up for their actions. I contacted her on a new account to reason with her and give her some tips (especially about her giving out all her private info in the webs) - she seemed eager to talk and at first I thought it might be of use but soon she started with the 'victim-card' and the 'pity-me' attitude and even went so far as do the 'I'm having dark thoughts and I'm leaving DA' drama. Didn't work on me which got her all angry again and alas, insults and a block. *sigh*
well, I tried
some people are just too dense to learn - though next time she gets head-on with people like that she might not be lucky to end up with someone who will merely report her
soooo... you know I often get people to ask me about commissions. That was the case with this pretty individual right here
So, like I usually do I went to her page to check her out and found a status post reagarding a poll of hers. I don't bother voting on polls about ships/things/people I do not know so I ignored it, but I thought the status post was funny, because it was the typical scene you get when someone adds negative answers to their polls and then get overly emotional when that option is actually choosen. I've seen it so often in TF fandom and with people I know closely and I usually tell them what I think about it - so I did here as well.
funny now that she attacked me like this and told me to go kill myself due to that comment I left, which I wouldn't consider an insult or offence in the first place
well she blocked me so I cannot talk to her about it and reason about this situation, which I would like sicne I don't think I did anything that deserves such a treatment by just posting that single comment.
In any case, her chance to get commissions from me is gone to infinity and I dearly hope people watch out for persons like her. None deserves to be addressed in such a way on the net :/
some might not like me posting this up here, but I do so for two reasons.
1. It's not funny to tell someone to go kill themselves, no matter if it's on the web or in real life. I'm not psychological unstable or depressed or anything, so I'm not going to get all 'Bawwww no one loves me, I got to take this knife and cut in ... ONE DIRECTION' (sry, I had to ... XD). I simply shake my head about such childish behavior.
But if this message would go to someone who was somewhat troubled, it might have catastrophic concequences. Someone of that age as this girl claims to be should have enough brains to realise that her words on the net can carry a long way and are out of her control once out of her mouth or fingers so to speak. Think before you post, people, you never know who might read it or might feel affected by it.
2. this poll-thing. If you post polls that have good and bad answers you have to expect people to also choose the bad option. Negative options are not bad basically - but if you are hurt or feel bad when someone chooses them, do not include them into your polls. You're going to hurt yourself and suffer - I know people who get so depressed when their polls do not get only good answers or astronomic great results - and I always think 'why bother with negativity in such a way if you can simply avoid it'?'.
There is no logical reason to hurt oneself like that if one is really that affected - some might do it for the drama factor to be able to baaawwww about it and crave attention and hugs from their fellows but I doubt this is healthy on the long run.
In short words - if you use polls that have sensitive answers, be able to deal with them and learn from them instead of boarding the sissy-train and whining about it
it makes you look imature and unintelligent.
that's all, thank you people - the bunny loves you!